Archive for July, 2008:

When Feelings Are Denied

There is a heavy price to be paid when feelings are denied or repressed. Lethargy, boredom, and a sense of deadness toward life may be the sorry consequence. When this happens, bigger and stronger forms of stimulation are required to feel happy and alive. Some people drink, others drive recklessly. Some people get seriously ill [...]

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The Vows

Most of the time, when the relationship has gone sour, we suddenly forget those vows that me made and go back to our former way of life. Worse, we leave the person behind. It is during these trying times when our faith, love and commitment to one another are being tested. These trying times determine [...]

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Trapped!

I was fascinated by what I saw on TV yesterday. A New York City man who sold books and magazines on the street was freed after being trapped for 2 days under a mountain of paper in his apartment. The man’s collection of printed materials, which he had stacked wall to wall [...]

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Psychology

I remember when I was still in college we have a subject in Psychology. One of the things I have learned is that when a person threatens to commit suicide, you should take him seriously. Never mind if he’s done it several times before. Never mind if it seems that he’s just calling for attention. [...]

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Rest In Peace

A man in my friend’s neighborhood has created a safety bed which he claims will provide protection against hurricanes, tornadoes, thieves, kidnappers, and terrorists. The inventor’s Web site calls it “the safest rest you’ve ever had.”
When a motion sensor detects a threat the “Quantum Sleeper” automatically folds up around its occupant. Inside the [...]

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Lost Memories

This is the story of my sister.
When she was eight months pregnant, her doctor advised her to undergo a 3D ultrasound. So she did, and a few minutes later, she got my very first picture of her baby girl! She rejoiced in living in the age of high technology. But then the enveloped where she [...]

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The Right Person

Have you noticed that when we are so in love and we feel we have found the right person, we vow to be the best for that person? We even promise to steer clear of our vices, the bad habits, and unpleasant behaviors.
But mostly that is only before we get married. I noticed too [...]

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Terrible Twos

“The Terrible Twos,” this is the term psychologists call a certain stage of a growing child, which we commonly call “The Stubborn Stage.” Mothers, I’m sure you know what I mean.
I had my share of all these experiences mothering and caring for a two-and-a-half-year-old girl at the moment. You know this little girl will bite [...]

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Loyalty

As we go through life, time and time again, our loyalty will be tested. Loyalty to friends – Shall I defend my friend or let these people make fun of her? Loyalty to one’s fraternity or sorority – Shall I join the frat war and defend our honor? Loyalty to my family – Shall I [...]

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People Shiver

Most people shiver when they hear the word Davao . But I have a close friend who has lived her life and she loves Davao and its people. They are warm and friendly, always willing to help you with a smile and hearty “Good morning.” In spite of what you may think, Davao is safer [...]

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